A Legacy in Denial!

I lost my childhood on the day that I was born because of the stigma that was attached to mental disorders in the past. There was simply no help for the caregivers (of young babies and children) who were out of control, due to mental illness such as depression, schizophrenia, MPD/DID and other disorders of the mind. So therefore domestic violence and child abuse was the secret that has destroyed this nation.

Throughout history there was no hope for the families who were living in abusive environments. The children had to suffer silently as the parents raged through their dysfunctional mental states that have in turn produced a legacy that has been passed down through the ages from dysfunctional generation to dysfunctional generation. But it does not have to be that way anymore.

As adults, we need to be responsible for our actions. However mental illness (and disorders) do not allow us that control because of the turmoil within our minds. Until we begin to break down these walls of ignorance, and allow mental health to be an accepted, vital part of the body's health, then the majority of victims will remain hidden for life and this legacy will continue to erode our country.


Emotional and mental abuse hurts just as bad as physical abuse but the mental pain lingers forever. Our wounds will mend on the surface but the hidden scars go deep down inside and are much more painful in the long run. I believe that until the adults are made aware of the damage done to them and educated by society of the damage that they could possibly be causing to our next generation that this legacy will carry on.

I must say at this point that not all survivors of domestic violence and child abuse become violent and abuse their own children. But certainly not all violent adults were survivors of domestic violence or child abuse either. And furthermore I do not consider an abuser that has any form of mental illness or disorder to be totally innocent. Even though we may have been victimized in the past and may even have a mental disorder of some kind, we cannot hide behind the labels.


If we know that we are ill, then we must seek help, but if we do not know that we are ill then we need the guidance of society to educate us and guide us in the right direction.

We should be as informed of the causes and reality of domestic violence and child abuse as we are now of heart disease, cancer and HIV just to name a few. We need to help each other to regain the dignity and respect that has been denied us our entire lives. Then and only then will more abusers seek out the help that they need before more damage is done to the innocent children that reside in our homes and communities.

By: Candy Little

Last updated on 1/6/2007

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